So, Like, Why Does Every Gay Guy Have a Mustache Now?

The Mustache Isn’t Back. It’s Just Everywhere.
Jackson Rickun
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May 2, 2025
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At some point, somewhere between the post-lockdown grooming glow-up and the slow, meme-heavy comeback of Top Gun, I looked around a gay bar and realized every person had the same thing on their face. I mean every face had a mustache.

By 2025, the mustache has become a kind of visual shorthand, a recognizable cue for a specific flavor of queerness that feels both referential and intentional. It signals style without shouting. It gestures toward masculinity and camp at the same time. It’s analog in a time when everything else feels airbrushed and filtered within an inch of its life.

And it’s everywhere.

But still—why the hell does everyone have a mustache?

Why Everyone Has a Mustache Right Now

Let’s start with the obvious: the mustache is a choice. No one wakes up with one by accident. You grow it, shape it, maintain it. You know it’ll be seen—not necessarily liked, but registered. In that sense, it’s less about beauty and more about readability. And sure, a beard or stubble requires maintenance too. But the mustache signals this kind of cunty punctuation mark—precise and a little smug.

It’s not about being sexy. It’s about being specific. In a moment when identity feels increasingly slippery—flattened by algorithms, smoothed out by AI—the mustache offers friction. It disrupts the feed just enough to suggest individuality.

Post-Pandemic Grooming and the Return of the Face

This didn’t appear out of nowhere. During lockdown, grooming became something #existential. We stopped performing for each other, and the rules fell apart. Some people let it all grow out. Others shaved everything off. For a while, we were just faces on screens, or behind masks.

But when the world reopened, we faced a new question: Who do I want to look like now?

The mustache became one answer. Less commitment than a beard, more presence than being clean-shaven. It offered just enough styling to feel deliberate, without tipping into costume. It was a low-stakes way to reclaim a face that had been blurred and backgrounded for years.

And then it spread. Not just virally, but optically. You saw three people you respected pull it off, and suddenly it wasn’t just viable—it was inevitable. And if those three people were also hot? Game over.

Mustache Mojo: Past Meets Present

Long before TikTok transition videos and post-pandemic glow-ups, queer culture was already busy turning the upper-lip into a statement piece: Tom of Finland’s hyper-macho illustrations in the ’50s and ’60s gave leather-bar clones a blueprint ; the late-’70s Castro clones mass-produced that look in tight Levi’s and unapologetic swagger; Freddie Mercury snuck the same thick Chevron onto arena stages in 1980, trolling mainstream fans while winking at the gays—“A lot of people are hating it — I don’t give a fuck, actually… it’s my mustache and I’m gonna keep it!” —and John Waters proved a penciled-on line of fuzz could be just as subversive as a full broom . Each era used the mustache to flip masculinity, eroticize authority, or camp it up—so today’s wave isn’t a revival so much as the latest remix of a long-running queer visual language, still flirting, still defiant, still loud even when it’s just sitting there

It Doesn’t Say Anything Specific—And That’s the Point

The mustache doesn’t articulate a single, stable meaning—and maybe that’s the point. It’s not like  nail polish or a clack fan. It’s quieter, more passive. It just sits there—literally on your face, yes, but also semiotically—allowing interpretation to fill the space it leaves open.

Other signals tend to declare something—“I’m masc,” “I’m femme,” “I listen to Ethel Cain.” But the mustache interrupts that clarity, especially in its link to the broader workwear trend: Carhartt jackets, heavy boots, a styled-down ruggedness that feels unusually present in the current queer visual field. What’s striking is how the mustache, as a fragment of that code, appears just as easily on femme-presenting people as on traditionally masc ones.

That movement between poles feels important. The mustache is neutral. It’s flexible. It complicates the read. It makes the viewer hesitate, recalibrate. And that ambiguity—structured, intentional, culturally legible—is exactly what gives it force.

Why It Works on Social Media

Part of why the mustache has stuck is also because of how it performs online. Visually, it adds contrast—structure, shape, a focal point. It gives the face angles. In a feed full of smoothed-over sameness, it cuts. It’s low-tech, high-impact.

You see the arc all the time on TikTok: full beard → clean shave → mustache reveal—usually timed to some remix of Sun Bleached Flies or a track called something like “angel.exe (spit in my mouth edit).” The comments follow a pattern. Not about the facial hair. About what it represents: “this is main character behavior,” “u just unlocked ur villain arc,” “he looks like he journals in italics.” The subtext is fluency. Control. You know what you’re doing with your face.

Who Gets to Wear It, and What It Gets to Mean

Not all performances get the same applause. For some of us, the mustache is a trend, a curated throwback, a low-stakes signal. I say that as someone whose face fits enough of the defaults—white, cis—that I get to treat it like an accessory. A filter I grow. A little experiment.

But that’s not what it is for everyone. The same mustache, on someone else, doesn’t always read as style. On trans men, femmes, queer folks of color, it doesn’t always accessorize—it sometimes exposes. It gets filtered through bias the wearer didn’t choose. What reads as deliberate on me might register as unruly or “too much” on someone else. Some get to play with masculinity. Others are already punished by it.

So, I can grow it, post it, shave it off when I’m done. But not everyone gets to opt in and out so easily. Not everyone gets to be interpreted how they want on purpose.

Yes, All This for a Mustache

And that’s the complication, isn’t it? It’s never just about the mustache. It’s about how something so small can carry intent, ambiguity, and aesthetic weight. It shapes a face, cuts through a feed, gestures toward masculinity without locking you into it.

But not everyone wears that ambiguity on equal terms. Some try it on; others get read through it before they speak. Still, its ubiquity says something about queerness, legibility, and how even the smallest choices get interpreted.

So yes. All this for a mustache. Because the mustache is doing more than you think.

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