At Grindr, we're constantly exploring ways to improve your experience and expand the Global Gayborhood in Your Pocket^TM. In doing so, we know that privacy is uniquely important to our community. Unfortunately, in many places around the world, sometimes even in the U.S., the consequences of coming (and being) out can still be serious. So we take a privacy-forward approach to our work. Today, we're excited to share some upcoming changes to our privacy policy that will lay the groundwork for innovative features designed to make your Grindr experience even better.

What's Coming Soon

Transparency first

Our Privacy Program is guided by three core principles: transparency, user control, and data minimization. We update our Privacy Policy regularly, and each time we make updates we strive to make it clear and informative, though we realize this can mean more reading. Since 2021, we have organized the Privacy Policy in a layered manner so that you can navigate to the section that is most important to you.

We're rolling out the product and policy changes described below thoughtfully, step by step, to ensure we're getting it right. And we're providing advance notice explanations of the choices you have in personalizing your Grindr experience.

Nearby connections and more 

Since Grindr’s inception, users have found great value in the app's location-based interface. We also know that how people make connections has changed since our start in 2009. While proximity remains a core element of the Grindr experience, we know some users are interested in connecting with people who have similar interests, even if they're not the closest geographically. We also know that some might like advice on how to craft an intro message beyond ‘Sup’. So we're excited to announce a brand new section to our Privacy Policy called "Our Connection Algorithms." This new section explains how your data can be used to better connect you with people, chatbots, services, and experiences through Grindr by further personalizing the Grindr experience, providing AI features tailored to individual interests (e.g., profile recommendations and a personal chatbot), and continually improving these features for the Grindr community. We’re excited to offer a more personalized experience through AI-powered features, but we understand it’s important for you to choose what’s right for you. Soon you’ll see an in-app pop-up where you can give explicit consent for Grindr to use certain data¹ that privacy laws define as sensitive for AI development – before this data can be used. You’ll also have in-app control over whether even your non-sensitive data, e.g., city-level location, can be used for AI development. 

More relevant ads

We know that more than 90% of our users enjoy the free version of our app. If you prefer an experience without third-party ads, you can always upgrade to a subscription. With a subscription, you can browse and message other users with no third-party ads interrupting your pursuit of a new connection, and no Personal Information is shared with advertising partners because no third-party ads are served.  

Making a free tier of Grindr available is important to us, and we’re able to do so because advertising revenue subsidizes some of the costs of providing this service. For ad-supported accounts, we currently share very limited information with advertisers (no Personal Information beyond IP address and an advertising identifier – with consent), but we recognize that this sometimes results in ads that may not be relevant to you. 

If you choose to receive personalized ads, we’d like to provide ads that are relevant to you while respecting your privacy. Therefore, if you choose personalized ads, the manner in which Personal Information is shared will be done in a privacy-preserving way. For example, we will allow advertisers to reach Grindr users based on general categories. This could involve sharing non-sensitive profile details like your general location (think city-level, not your exact location) or interests you’ve tagged in your profile (like your love for Sunday brunch), but only with your consent. Finally, Grindr does not share any information about your vaccination, testing, or HIV status with third-party advertisers. No vaccination status. No testing reminders. No HIV status. 

It's important to emphasize that sharing certain Personal Information for ads remains entirely optional—you’re in full control of whether you receive personalized ads and therefore what data is shared with advertising partners. As always, you can accept or decline to receive potentially more relevant ads via the Consent Preference Center within the app. For more information, please check out this help center article. 

Data retention and more

In this update, we have made efforts to address some commonly asked questions. For example, we include that all accounts with no log-ins for the past two (2) years are considered “inactive,” and are deleted from our systems in line with our Privacy Policy. We have also updated how European users can contact our EEA and UK representatives. And we are transitioning our Consent Management Platform, which lets you manage personalized ad choices, to a new provider– Ketch. 

Your Privacy, Our Priority

We understand that privacy is of paramount importance to our users given our community’s unique needs, and we recognize that Grindr is a special space for our community. Privacy is also at the heart of what makes our space inviting, comfortable, and fun. We are committed, now and always, to being transparent, keeping you informed, and earning– and maintaining– your trust. 

We know you might have questions, and we are here to help. We have worked hard to create a policy that gives you the information you need to make informed choices, and this blog is intended to explain the most important changes in clear, easy-to-understand terms. If you still have questions, feel free to contact us directly at [email protected]. 

¹ The in-app consent allows you to choose whether limited, optional profile fields (ethnicity, pronouns, gender, looking for, tribe, tags, and position); chat message content; and precise location can be used to help build AI features. You remain in control of what you include in your profile. 

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Wedding season is upon us, and if you’ve ever wondered how to navigate the social waters of a queer wedding—or better yet, how to make sure you’re not that guest—this guide is for you. Grindr surveyed thousands of its users to gather the tea on what flies and what flops when it comes to queer weddings. From avoiding awkward questions to understanding the nuances of queer wedding traditions, we’ve got you covered.

The Don’ts: What Not to Say or Do

Don’t Play the Groom/Bride Guessing Game

It might seem innocent, but asking, “Who’s the groom?” and “Who’s the bride?” rank as the ultimate no-gos, with 54.9 percent of respondents marking it as the worst nuptial question. Let’s be mindful, alright?

Avoid Intrusive Relationship Questions

Curiosity is natural, but there’s a limit. Asking, “Who’s the top and who’s the bottom?” isn’t just rude; it’s also none of your business. With 29.8 percent of Grindr users placing this as a major faux pas, it’s clear that some things are better left unasked.

The Icks: Straight Folks, Take Notes

Weddings Are Not Spectacles

A queer wedding isn’t a novelty celebration. They should be treated the same as yours. The biggest ick? Straight people treating the ceremony like a spectacle. At least, that’s what 26 percent of respondents said, wishing that straight folks would just kick back and enjoy the moment. And for the love of all things sacred, no one needs to hear how “brave” you think queer weddings are.

Ditch the Heteronormativity

Comparing queer couples to straight ones? Not cute. It’s not a compliment to say, “You two are just like a regular couple!” or “Your relationship is so traditional!” Queer love doesn’t need to be validated by how closely it mirrors something else. Let us live.

The Dos: How to Be the Perfect Wedding Guest

Get Involved in the Fun

It’s a party, y’all, so now’s not the time to hold back. If we don’t see you on the dance floor, we’ll be taking notes…

Respect the Couple’s Wishes

When the couple asks for something—whether it’s sticking to a dress code, using the right pronouns, or honoring a unique tradition—your job is to follow suit (or dress). After all, it’s their day, not a choose-your-own-adventure. So, if the invitation says black tie, don’t show up in flip-flops.

Avoid These Phrases at All Costs

And then there are the things that just don’t need to be said. Here’s what Grindr users flagged as the biggest conversational landmines.

“How many of these guys have you hooked up with?”

It’s invasive, it’s cringy, and it’s got all the charm of an unsolicited LinkedIn message. Save everyone the discomfort and just… don’t.

Calling a Partner a “Friend” or “Roommate”

This isn’t a sitcom from the ’90s, m’kay? Our respondents suggest you drop the euphemisms and call it what it is. If you’re unsure, “partner” works just fine.

“I support your lifestyle.”

Being gay is not a lifestyle brand. 25.5 percent of users think this is one of the most patronizing phrases. We’re here to celebrate love, not seek approval.

Matchmaking? Think Again

Feeling like playing Cupid? Resist. 60.3 percent of respondents suggest you let love find its own way without your help. The wedding is about the couple in front of you, not the potential couples you’re dreaming up.

Gendered Traditions: Time for a Change?

Weddings aren’t a box to tick off. Grindr users know this, and they’re here to show that the only rule is to toss the rulebook. Here’s how they’re shaking things up.

Mix and Match — 51.8 percent of respondents prefer to pick and choose which traditions to follow, blending them to suit their preferences.

Go Gender-Neutral — 15.1 percent are all about adapting traditions to be more inclusive.

Complementary Yet Distinct — 44.6 percent of respondents favor outfits that complement each other without matching.

Individual Styles — 27.4 percent prefer expressing their unique identities through clothing choices.

Keep Your Original Names — 31.6 percent of respondents are all for keeping their own last names.

Hyphenate — 31.1 percent opt to hyphenate both last names, blending them in a way that feels right.

Music and Entertainment: Keeping It Queer

Interestingly, 59.4 percent of respondents don’t care too much about incorporating queer culture into the music and entertainment at their wedding. But for those who do, queer DJs, LGBTQ+ anthems, and drag performances are top choices.

For Straight Weddings: Inclusivity Matters

You call the shots—after all, it’s your wedding. But if inclusivity is on your radar, these minor tweaks could add a nice touch and earn you some extra queer street cred.

Attendants of Honor — 25.8 percent of respondents feel this term resonates most when replacing the traditional bridesmaids and groomsmen.

No ‘Gay Table’ Please — 85.2 percent of respondents say a firm no to segregating guests based on their sexual orientation (we hope this seems obvious).

And That’s a Wrap

Weddings, queer or otherwise, are really just about showing up, having a good time, and letting people celebrate the way they want. If you’ve picked up a few tips here, great. If not, just remember: smile, don’t ask weird questions, and play by the rules. Everything else? Just go with the flow.

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Open season is upon us. This year, we’re serving grunt on (and off) the court. 

In the spirit of the US Open, Grindr’s taking a swing at something new—introducing the ‘grunt’ notification sound. That’s right, tennis grunts. They’re hot, they’re heavy, and now they’re part of your Grindr experience.

For those who live for the court, this will be an instant ace. But even if tennis isn’t your game, we think this new sound will still net you some fun. 

Why tennis, and why now? Because where else do grunts speak volumes, whether you’re playing a match or just playing around? Grindr and tennis were always a match made in heaven; we’re just making it official.

Ready for some action? Here’s how:

1. Tap your profile photo.
2. Go to Settings.
3. Scroll down to Notifications.
4. Turn on the “Sound” toggle—you’re ready to grunt your way through the US Open season.

But don’t worry—if you're not feeling grunty, you can always turn of sound notifications in your account settings. After all, we know everyone likes to play their own way.

Willkommen to Berlin, a city that wears its culture on its leather sleeve. Germany’s capital boasts pristine Prussian architecture, grungy street art, and a nightlife scene with such extended hours you’ll forget time exists (what day is it anyway?). This is a place for those who crave something different, with a come-one-come-all vibe that has made it a haven for expats from all over the world.

In our latest episode of Host or Travel, we kicked things off at Toms Wurst, a temple to Berlin's most beloved street food: the currywurst. But this isn't just any sausage. No, this spicy little hog is slathered in a sauce so tangy, you’ll want to take your sweet time with it. After living the curry fantasy, we headed to the Tipsy Bear, one of Berlin’s best no-frills queer bars—glitter, grit, and a whole lot of gumption. The shows are a riot, and if you're lucky, you might just get pulled onstage.

Of course, Berlin's queer scene isn't all glitz and glamour. At Grosse Freiheit 114, things are a little steamier—less sparkle, more sweat. Here, anything goes, and respect and consent are the only rules. Beyond that, it’s your playground.

We ended the night at Schwuz, a pulsing, throbbing testament to the best of German club culture. Three rooms—unlimited rotating music genres. At Schwuz, there’s a holy trinity of bass, bodies, and bad decisions just waiting for you to worship.

Here’s a list of more spots you should check out.

Berlin Food

Berio Berlin—The kind of place where one coffee turns into three (the people-watching is that good). The tables are always packed with people who know a good coffee when they taste it. If you can snag a seat outside, consider yourself lucky because everyone’s after that perfect spot. In the summer, it’s prime real estate. Fresh pastries, strong coffee, and the buzz of conversation make this place feel like home.

Romeo und Romeo—This Schöneberg spot nails the balance between cozy and cool, and while the walls might not talk, the well-thumbed LGBT magazines on the tables certainly do—they whisper stories of a neighborhood that’s seen it all. The regulars? You’ll find them nursing their espresso like it’s a fine art, which, in this corner of Berlin, it might as well be.

Sissi—Just a few-minute stroll from the subway, Sissi feels like a hidden gem, even though it’s right under your nose. Cozy but not cramped, intimate but not intimidating—it’s quintessential Berlin. Take your pick between the front and back seating, though with portions this generous, you might want to sit close to the door for a quicker escape to walk it all off.

Berlin Nightlight

Prinzknecht—Where Berlin’s industrial edge meets a bear hug—literally. Prinzknecht is a laid-back spot with a rugged charm, friendly crowds, and a warehouse-turned-hangout ambiance. Locals and tourists alike flock here, drawn by the no-nonsense vibe that’s part pub, part gay sanctuary.

KitKatClub—When you step into KitKatClub, you realize modesty’s taken the night off. The dance floor bleeds into the playroom, where latex, leather, and skin collide in Berlin’s most unapologetic sex party. Here, “Do what you want but stay in communication” is the cardinal rule. The rest? That’s up to you.

König Dragshow—What started at Tipsy Bear in 2019 has become a home for drag kings and nonbinary performers. No big production, just a stage where two new acts each month show what they’ve got. It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s all about letting the performers define the night. Highly recommended for the discerning traveler who wants to see a piece of German culture that’s quietly making its mark.

Berlin Arts & Culture

Künstlerhaus Bethanien—Künstlerhaus Bethanien—For 50 years, this international cultural hub in Berlin’s Kreuzberg district has been the gritty backstage of the city’s art scene. It’s where artists from around the world come not just to exhibit but to create—whether that’s painting, sculpting, fabricating, or something entirely different—in a historic building that’s all about the work. No velvet ropes, no pretentious gallery banter—just a space where the focus is on making art, getting messy, and maybe sharing a beer with fellow creatives.

Schwules Museum—Since 1985, Schwules Museum has been the go-to spot for exploring LGBTQ+ stories. From vintage photographs to personal letters and protest signs, each piece here tells a part of the LGBTQ+ journey. Located in Schöneberg’s Rainbow District, the museum also houses a library and archives, making it a key resource for anyone digging into queer culture.

Museum für Film und Fernsehen—In the heart of Berlin, the Museum für Film und Fernsehen is a sleek fusion of cinema and television, past and present. During your time here, you’ll wander through a century of German film, courtesy of the archives of Deutsche Kinemathek, then flip the channel to five decades of TV.

From street eats to basement beats, Berlin never misses.

Tschüss, for now. See you next week in Malta.

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Pop the Mezcal and drop the towel, because we're back with another episode of Host or Travel. This time, we hit up Zipolite, one of the most liberating beach towns in Mexico.

Nestled on a rugged stretch of the southern Pacific coast, this sun-drenched oasis has long been a magnet for free spirits, adventure-seekers, and anyone who believes that life's too short to tan with tan lines. Case in point: Playa del Amor, Zipolite's infamous clothing-optional beach.

But don't be fooled by the birthday suits—Zipolite isn't just for the nudies. This is a place with depth, with soul, with a flavor all its own. Just ask Chef Luis, the mad genius at Xhuba behind some of the most mind-bendingly delicious things we've ever had the pleasure of putting on our tongues. From his savory tlayudas to his crisp ceviche, every bite was a testament to Zipolite's singular spirit.

And then there was La Maxima, the pint-sized powerhouse of a bar where Zipolite's queer community comes to see and be seen. We rounded out our trip with a snorkeling dip down under in the Pacific. Parrotfish, angelfish, dorado, snapper—it’s clear Mother Nature took her time here in Zipolite. And you should, too, because this little slice of heaven’s got enough to do for even the thirstiest vacationers.

Here’s a list of more spots you should check out.

Zipolite Food

Orégano—Zipolite staple and brainchild of two young guns on a mission to keep old-school Oaxacan food alive. Step inside, catch a whiff of fresh tortillas from the comal and try not to drool. Hungry local? Adventurous foodie? Doesn't matter. Orégano's got you with quesadillas that'll rock your world and tlayudas that'll spice up your dreams.

Clan Destino—You stumble into Clan Destino. Shrimp taquitos, consommé, and flautas slam into your face like a freight train. The atmosphere electrifies the space, making it both an intimate dinner haven and the ultimate spot to kick back with a drink. Cozy? Sure. Tame? Absolutely not.

Av. Roca Blanca—Strap on your huaraches, honey, because Av. Roca Blanca is begging to be stepped on. This cobblestone street is an artsy foodie’s dream come true, where you can score a one-of-a-kind painting, sip mezcal with the expat crowd, and get stuffed with the best of Oaxacan cuisine. But be careful—you just might fall in love at least three times before dinner.

Zipolite Nightlife

Hotel Nude Pool Party—Hotel Nude strips away everything expected you’d find at your typical resort. With wood, royal palm, and biophilic design, Hotel Nude is Zipolite's wild child, the black sheep of the resort family. But the real headline? Their clothing-optional policy, one they pioneered when covering up was still the norm. Hotel Nude was the first to let it all hang out, not just on the sand but in every nook and cranny.

Casa Nudista—Casa Nudista is where you realize that being naked is only weird until it isn’t. The sun’s warm, the pool’s cool, and after a few minutes, you start to wonder why you ever bothered with clothes in the first place. At this 100% nudist LGBTQ+ hotel, you stop overthinking and start enjoying the feeling of nothing between you and the breeze. By the end, the strangest part isn’t that you spent the day naked—it’s that putting your clothes back on feels like a step backward.

Domingo Disco—Domingo Disco's what happens when Zipolite's free spirit gets down and dirty with disco, and everyone's invited to the clothing-optional afterparty. This fiesta's as inclusive as it is wild, welcoming all to come dance under the stars. 

Arts and Culture

Gupalii Spa - Forget the fancy spa with the cucumber water and the whale music—Gupalii Spa is the real deal, a hidden gem where ancient rituals meet modern queer magic. The temazcal ceremony is like a spiritual steam room where you sweat out your toxins and emerge reborn. You’ll leave feeling lighter, not just from the detox, but from the realization that your problems are as ancient and universal as the ritual itself.

Mitotecali—Mitotecali’s Polynesian Dance Experience is less about mastering the moves and more about surrendering to the rhythm—awkward flailing included. The instructors guide you with a knowing smile, as if they’ve seen it all before (and they have). By the end, you’re either in sync with the island beats or happily lost in your own offbeat groove. Either way, it’s the most fun you’ll have realizing you’re not as coordinated as you thought.

Shambala Vision—Shambala Vision is where you let strangers rub out your stress while the ocean tries to drown out your last shred of obligations. The massages are top-notch, but it’s the salty breeze and the sound of waves crashing that really get under your skin. At Shambala’s Vision, stress goes to die—their masseuses know every knot you’ve got.

Zipolite changed us. And darling? We loved every second of it. In this queer mecca, the magic is real, and it’s everywhere you turn. 

See you next week in Berlin.

Got more hot spots we missed? Head to our YouTube channel and drop your recs in the comments

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Ah, Los Angeles! If you’re looking for saints, you’ve boarded the wrong plane. Episode 3 of Host or Travel shows LA is more than silicone and smog, so get ready for some serious stargazing.

Here’s a little recap: We hit Runyon Canyon, where we got our blood pumping dodging selfie sticks and eyeing down the best shirtless talent. Voyeurism and public? We’ll take the lot. Later, the Ginger Rogers surf crew showed us the true meaning of a "group hang," and the East Side gays taught us that even though Akbar is located in Silver Lake, going out there is the gold standard. 

Of course, no queer tour of LA would be complete without a pilgrimage to the Tom of Finland Foundation. Let's just say this Michelangelo of muscle men makes art that puts the Statue of David’s physique to shame. 

And while we two-stepped with the studs at LA’s infamous line dancing party Stud Country, we’re not ready to stop dancing. Feeling the same? You’re in luck. Check out these extra spots for your next LA fix.

LA Food

Casita del Campo — Forget Taco Bell, honey. Step into Casita Del Campo, a Silver Lake staple where queer Mexican food thrives amidst provocative art, "West Side Story" memorabilia, and a colorful atmosphere that's practically begging for stolen kisses and under-the-table antics. 

Bavel — If you manage to score a table at Bavel, consider yourself one of the lucky ones. This fine-dining heavyweight is throwing down some serious Middle Eastern magic in the kitchen. The slow-roasted lamb neck shawarma is the stuff of legends—one bite and you might just swear off all other meat for good.

Chateau Marmont — LA’s favorite den of opulence and sin, where the ghosts of Hollywood’s horny past roam the halls. Kick back in the Gothic-style dining room straight out of a vampire's wet dream, or go for a little al fresco hanky-panky in the lush garden terrace. At the Chateau, anything goes.

LA Nightlife

Hi Tops — Slip into something more comfortable at this gay sports bar where the only thing tighter than the uniforms is the sense of camaraderie. With cheap pitchers and a chance to score, there's no striking out. Can't decide between the West Side and the East Side? Hi Tops has a location in both parts of town, so you can have your balls, brews, and boys any way you like 'em.

The Eagle — Spread your wings. The Eagle’s nest is calling. If you're looking for a beastly night out, fly right into this iconic leather bar where LA's best bears and daddies show you how it's really done.

Ostbahnhof — Abandon all shame, ye who enter here. Ostbahnhof is the unholy lovechild of a grungy warehouse party and a kinky art show. Wall-to-wall flesh, sweat, and a thick fog of pheromones make this party an extreme sport for queers. Inhibition? Don't know her. Shirts? Optional.

Arts and Culture

Wi Spa — Enter the steamiest corner of K-Town, where getting clean takes on a whole new meaning. From the depths of the mugwort pool to the heights of the Himalayan salt sauna, this 24/7 spa paradise is a playground for those who like their relaxation hot, wet, and au naturel.

Griffith Observatory—High atop Mount Hollywood, Griffith Observatory stands tall, an art deco planetarium with science exhibits galore. Feeling starstruck? You're not alone. Even Orion's belt can't help but come undone at the sight of Griffith's three solar telescopes.

LA LGBT Center — For over 50 years, the Los Angeles LGBT Center has empowered queer Angelinos as the world's largest service-providing LGBTQ+ organization. The Center provides free HIV/STI testing, medical care, mental health services, housing support, cultural events,  legal aid, and more to tens of thousands annually. With ten vibrant locations across LA, the Center welcomes all to get involved, access services, or take a tour.

Runyon studs. Eagle daddies. Tom of Finland fantasies. LA, you’re a star. We're spent, but we'll be back for more.

Hasta la vista, baby. See you next week in Zipolite. 

Got more hot spots we missed? Head to our YouTube channel and drop your recs in the comments!

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Olá, gatas! We just got back from Rio for Episode 2 of our new series, Host or Travel, and if you thought the caipirinhas were strong, wait 'til you get a taste of the local flavor. The heat, the samba beats, the winding streets—Rio spoke to us, and we think it’ll speak to you, too.

In case you missed it, we got our glutes righteously wrecked climbing the Escadaria Selarón in Lapa, sipped bebidas with the artsy crowd in boho-chic Santa Teresa, and let the locals of Ipanema Beach gag us with how they handled a few volleyballs. And when the sun went down, we discovered that Rio nightlife is just as hot as its beaches—Club Turma OK had us sweating in all the right places.

But we only scratched the surface. And we’re not done scratching. So grab your sunscreen, your smallest sunga, and enough Rio-mance to make you think you're fluent in Portuguese.

Here’s our list of more spots you should check out.

Rio de Janeiro's Food

Aprazivel — Aprazível offers a rare and essential experience: the chance to slow down, indulge in organic flavors, and appreciate the beauty of your partner-in-dine. As you feast on some of the freshest Rio de Janeiro food, let your imagination run wild with all the ways you could work up an appetite for round two.

Bossa Lounge — Your soon-to-be favorite rooftop in the heart of Rio. With its stylish bar, smooth tunes, and jaw-dropping oceanside views, it's the perfect spot to get things rising higher than its 20th-floor perch.

Bar dos Descasados — While the name might mean "unmarried," after a few of their expertly crafted cocktails, you'll be ready to say "I do" to a night of indulgence. Let the goat cheese omelet be your wingman.

Rio Nightlife

Pink Flamingo — Flamingle at Copacabana's hottest gay bar in Rio de Janeiro, where the drinks are strong enough to make even the most rigid flag pole bend. The beats will have you shaking your tail feathers and hunting for your next juicy shrimp.

Tropik Beach — When all the sun and seawater leave you craving a different kind of wetness, hit up this spot for tropical cocktails that'll make your beach balls tingle and your coconuts stand tall and proud.

The Home — This sleek, sexy techno temple will have you sweating on the dance floor and playing in some darkly fun corners. Rave now, sleep later.

Arts and Culture

Crescer e Viver — Circus performances where the performers believe in freedom, self-expression, and the power of a well-timed wink. It’s daring, seductive, and just a little bit naughty—but don’t worry, they always practice safe-circus.

Fundiçao Progresso — Rio’s biggest independent cultural center where you can go and let your freak flag fly. Check out the art, music, and maybe a few urban farmers—perfect for getting down and dirty with some hoes.

Samba in Pedra Do Sal — Shake that bunda at the birthplace of samba. On Samba Day, it's a non-stop party of hot rhythms and sweaty bodies where anything can happen.

We came, we saw, we caipirinha'd. From the sun-kissed shores of Ipanema to the pulsing rhythms of Lapa, this city really knows how to make your bossa feel extra nova in all the right ways. So if you're wondering "is Brazil LGBT friendly?" the answer is a resounding yes—Brazil LGBT culture is thriving, and Rio is at the heart of it all. Até logo for now. 

See you in LA for Round 3. 

Got more hot spots we missed? Head to our YouTube channel and drop your recs in the comments!

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¿Qué pasa, guapos? We hit up Madrid for Episode 1 of our new series Host or Travel, and if you thought your Grindr chats were spicy, wait until you see what Spain’s bustling and oh-so-gay capital has to offer.

In case you missed it, we got our culos spanked in Chueca's best queer bars, gagged on Las Niña’s fierce drag, and stuffed our… faces with tapas at Mercado de San Antón. We even let El Matadero and Archivo LGTBIQ dom us with a crash course in queer history.

But Madrid’s not just all sangria, siestas, and Serrano—it’s a huge city with loads to offer, and we barely got past the foreplay. So, if you're ready to explore beyond the tourist traps, keep reading. 

Here’s our list of more spots you should check out. 

Food

Bar El Boqueron — Raw, wet, and ready to slurp. Seafood so fresh, it's still winking at you. It’s a tight squeeze where you can watch the chefs work their magic on the freshest catch of the day.

San Miguel Market — Foodies, welcome to your wet dream. This gourmet wonderland is packed with stalls slinging every type of Spanish delicacy imaginable. Come hungry, leave stuffed.

Sala de Despiece — Meat your match at this provocative dining experience that's not afraid to show some skin. You might overdraw your account, but it’s worth every Euro. 

Nightlife

Cazador Bar — Queer watering hole for creative creatures. Kitschy cool, cheap sips, and hunting-themed memorabilia everywhere. Prime time 11 pm.

STRONG — Pounding beats. Glistening bodies. End your night with a bang... or several. Madrid's most inclusive sex party SKIN, which goes down every Sunday at Strong, stands out in the city's nightlife scene—open to all, yet with a distinct LGTBQ+ and fetish focus.

La Venencia — When you need a break from the madness, slip into this timeless sherry bar. With its old-world charm and intimate atmosphere, it's perfect for a nightcap and a little tit-a-tit.

Arts and Culture

Thyssen-Bornemisza - Get cultured and sip on some queer thirst through the ages at this museum's "Inclusive Love" exhibit, which highlights themes, icons, and characters related to the sensitivity, culture, and experiences of the LGBTQ community. After you've had your fill, pop over to the iconic El Retiro park nearby—it's huge, gorgeous, and has cruising.

El Rastro - Thrifting is a queer rite of passage, and El Rastro is Madrid’s Mecca. This sprawling flea market is a treasure trove of vintage finds, one-of-a-kind oddities, and maybe even a rare connection or two, if you're lucky.

BERKANA - Berkana opened in 1993 as the first LGBTQ+ bookstore in Spain and Latin America. It's often regarded as the Hispanic equivalent of New York's legendary Oscar Wilde Bookshop.

Madrid had us panting from start to finish. From culinary mastery and world-class art to nightlife that will leave you in need of a siesta, this city knows how to tease and please. But don’t just take our word for it. Get on over to Asspaña and see for yourself.

Got more hot spots we missed? Head to our YouTube channel and drop your recs in the comments!

When the Olympics come around, Grindr isn't just there to watch from the sidelines. We’re in the game, with athletes in the host city continuing to use the app the way they do at home and everywhere else—to see who’s around, check out the locals, arrange meetups, and more.

If an athlete is not out or comes from a country where being LGBTQ+ is dangerous or illegal, using Grindr can put them at risk of being outed by curious individuals who may try to identify and expose them on the app.

That’s why, at the 2022 Winter Olympics in Beijing, we made the decision to disable location-based features within the Olympic Village and other athletic sites. It was our way of ensuring that LGBTQ+ athletes could connect with each other authentically without worrying about prying eyes or unwanted attention.

And we’re doing the same at the Paris 2024 Olympic Games this year. Here’s our game plan:

Disabling Location-Based Features 

We're turning off features like "Explore" and "Roam" within the Olympic Village. The "show distance" feature will also be turned off by default, but users can share their approximate distance if they decide to turn it on. Our goal is to help athletes connect without worrying about unintentionally revealing their whereabouts or being recognized.

Empowering Users with Control 

Here are some of the additional safety and privacy features we’ll be enabling for users in the Olympic Village to give them more privacy controls and peace of mind:

• Send unlimited disappearing messages and unsend messages after they're sent—regardless of whether you’re a premium or free user. 
• Disable screenshots for profile images and media in-chat.
• Private Videos are disabled within the Olympic Village.
• Access the ‘Report a Recent Chat’ feature in Settings to report any concerns within 24 hours, along with our other enhanced security features. We protect your privacy by keeping user details confidential (profile names and photos are obscured).

Providing Targeted Safety Resources 

Being an LGBTQ+ athlete comes with its own unique set of challenges, especially for those who come from places that lack basic rights and protections for our community.

That’s why we’re taking the additional step of sending targeted safety resources and information, including weekly messages reminding users that they may face danger while using the app in the Olympic Village and sharing links to our multilingual safety resources.

Showcasing Our Values 

The only ads that will appear on Grindr to those in the village during the Olympics will be advertisements from Grindr for Equality promoting health & safety resources. You won't see third-party advertisements—only Grindr for Equality public service announcements to help keep users informed and safe.

We've got Your Back

To the trailblazing LGBTQ+ athletes heading to Paris, we can't wait to see you shine.

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Today, our CEO George Arison, accompanied by the Grindr leadership team, rang the opening bell at the New York Stock Exchange (NYSE) in honor of NYSE’s Pride Month festivities and in celebration of our very own 15th anniversary. This milestone comes nearly two years after Grindr's public listing in November 2022 and follows our first Investor Day presentation, where we shared our vision and strategy for the company’s continued growth, evolution, and impact.

Over the past 15 years, Grindr has grown from a groundbreaking upstart into a global platform that connects millions of LGBTQ+ individuals worldwide for a multitude of use cases far beyond casual dating. This achievement is a testament to the power of our product and the trust and support of our users, who have made Grindr a ubiquitous part of their daily lives in more than 190 countries.

As we celebrate this occasion and look to the future, we remain committed to our mission of being the Gayborhood in your pocket. Through our success, we strive to make a world where the lives of our global community are free, equal, and just. 

‍Watch CEO, George Arison, Ring the NSYE Opening Bell

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Ready to join the horny masses and get yourself a Grindr profile (if you haven’t already, that is)? Call us biased, but if so, we’re so excited! Why? Well, because you’re in for everything as far as gay love and sex goes: new friends, dates, casual hookups, party invites, orgy invites, or — who knows — maybe even meeting the love (or loves) of your life. It’s a big, beautiful, hugely homosexual world out there, and it’s yours for the swiping.

But how does Grindr actually work? Read on as we show you how to create a Grindr account so you can start connecting with guys as fast as your thumbs can carry you.

What is Grindr used for?

If you’re new to Grindr, welcome! First things first: Here are the house rules. 

Next, shoes off at the door (unless your kink is keeping them on, of course, which we’re all for), lube to the left, and PrEP/condoms/poppers to the right. 

In all seriousness, you probably know by now that we're a gay hookup app. But Grindr has the potential to be so much more. How you use it ultimately depends on you. Some use it as they would any other dating app, like Tinder, while others are here primarily to connect with someone (or someones) nearby for some quick fun.

What sets Grindr apart from other dating apps is our ability to connect you with available hotties who are closest to you. This unique feature has made Grindr the largest social networking app for gay, bi, trans, and queer people, whether it's for casual hookups, finding a serious relationship, or anything in between.

How to use Grindr: The basics

Getting on Grindr is easier than ever, whether via the app on your smartphone (downloadable here) or Grindr Web on your desktop, which requires no download. Once you’ve officially signed up, here’s what to do next:

Create and complete your Grindr profile

An empty profile won’t exactly attract the loads of "attention" you're after, so step one is to add your info and a few photos. Your pics are the gateway to your profile and the first thing anyone will see, so make them count! Show other users what you really look like — taking selfies is an art that’s all about clear, flattering lighting and finding the right angle. Remember, face pics make a better first impression than pec pics as your primary profile photo (although chances are no one will say no to you including both).

Next, choose your display name. Feel free to get creative — some users change theirs often to reflect whatever they're looking for that day. You can swap out your username whenever, so don’t worry if you’re not feeling "Nu2Dis_69" after that wild weeklong romp around Puerto Vallarta. You do you, whatever that happens to mean.

Finally, finish filling out your profile info (age, height, weight, position, etc.), tags, and what you’re looking for (friends, dates, hookups). You can always add more details, specifics, or playful puns and emojis later. And you can delete them whenever, too.

Explore how the app works

Now that you’ve officially introduced yourself to the Grindr-verse, it’s time to get into the ins and outs of using the app. We recommend playing around with the settings (tap your profile icon in the upper left corner, then “settings” in the bottom left corner) to see all the different options the app offers, including whether you want to activate or silence the iconic notification sound Grindr is famous (and also kind of infamous) for.

If you ever need to block someone, tap the circle with a line through it in the upper right corner. This will cut off all contact with the user, and they won't be able to see your profile. You can also unblock them whenever you like.

Connect with others

Ready to strut those tail feathers and see who takes notice? You’re not the only one. 

Window shopping the grid is one of the best parts of Grindr. See someone you like? Tap their profile pic to have a look at the rest of their photos and info (they’ll receive a notification that you viewed their profile, too).

If you’re really into what you see, tapping the flame icon in the lower right corner of their profile will let them know just that. And if you feel like making the first move, it’s as easy as dropping them a line in the “say something…” field at the bottom of their profile or tapping the chat bubble icon, also in the lower right corner, to get things started. You can also tap the star in the upper right corner of a user’s profile to add them to your favorites. 

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Grindr tips for a better experience

With your professional pounder/poundee profile (not official Grindr terminology, but apt nonetheless) officially up and running, you’re all set to start swiping. But before you engage with that first hottie that catches your eye, here are some quick tips for a better Grindr experience.

Communicate with respect

Studies indicate that acts of kindness enhance the production of serotonin and dopamine, hormones that contribute to feelings of happiness and well-being and activate the brain's pleasure and reward centers, which is why you’re here in the first place, right? 

In other words, it’s scientifically proven that it’s good for you to be nice. 

You’re sure to meet folks from all walks of life on Grind. No matter your mood, never forget: There's a person on the other side of the screen. There’s enough hate in the world as is; as LGBTQ people, we all know this all too well. Why bring it here?

Be clear with your intentions

There are plenty of people on Grindr who are just as eager as you are, whether they're horned up looking for a quick hookup or actually on the hunt for a long-term relationship. Whatever you're seeking, be clear about your expectations from the start. This way, you won’t waste your time or theirs by being vague — unless ambiguity is exactly what you're both after, of course.

Don’t compare yourself to others

There's someone for everyone in this world, and Grindr, being a microcosm of the real world, means there's someone for you too. That said, social media, including dating apps, can sometimes make us all feel self-conscious. 

Our advice for using Grindr? Be yourself. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks, as difficult as it may seem. Comparing yourself to others is a one-way ticket to getting stuck in self-defeating cycles where you don't think you're good enough to reach out to someone you're interested in. Instead, focus on your unique qualities (including all the beautiful nonphysical ones, too) and let them shine — after all, that’s what makes you you.

Never forget, there are plenty of fish in the sea. With more than 10 million monthly active users, trust us — we know what we’re talking about. 

Stay safe

Our commitment to your safety is and always has been a top priority — and we hope it's one of yours, too. 

We encourage you to always be vigilant while scrolling through profiles; watch out for red flags that might trigger your fight-or-flight response. If you make it to the hookup stage, always take additional precautions, like meeting in public for the first time or, if you go directly to their place, sharing your location with someone you trust. Always let a close friend or family member know where you're headed (even if they don’t know the specifics of what you’re planning on doing once you get there).

Say it with us: Safety is sexy!

We are proud to stand hand in hand with our partners Equal Namibia and Rainbow Sky Association of Thailand as they advance the rights and protections for our community.

This week in Namibia, the apartheid-era sodomy law banning gay sex has been repealed, and the court's decision has sent a powerful message of hope in a climate often dominated by fear. This ruling affirms that LGBTQ+ Namibians are integral members of their society and equal citizens who belong in an independent and democratic Namibia. The victory is not just legal but profoundly symbolic, heralding a brighter future for the LGBTQ+ community in Africa. Consensual same-sex activity remains illegal in over half of the continent’s 54 countries, making Namibia's ruling a rare and hard-won beacon of hope. 

For the past several months, we have provided Namibian users with up-to-date information about the upcoming court case, including guidance on appropriate attire and safety measures. Users were encouraged to join Equal Namibia and other partner organizations in the weeks leading up to the High Court decision in Windhoek. These messages have served as a driving force, empowering our community to use their voice on the day of the verdict, culminating in a high celebration of unity and hope. 

The future remains uncertain, as it's unclear if the government will appeal to the Supreme Court. However, what is certain is that the movement for equality will not stop here.

During the press conference, an activist shared a sentiment that resonated deeply with our company's values, stating: "We have committed to this journey however long it will be, and for whatever comes next. Today we celebrate and today we are grateful.”. 

The Thai LGBTQ+ community also had reason to celebrate this week, becoming the first Southeast Asian country to legalize marriage equality. Thailand’s Senate passed the final reading of a marriage equality law, which was supported by nearly all upper house lawmakers. Now the law is making its way to the palace. Once the law receives royal approval, it will come into force 120 days after publication in the royal gazette, allowing the first same-sex weddings to take place later this year.

This is a monumental step forward, marking Thailand the third country in Asia to enact marriage equality legislation, after Nepal and Taiwan. In 2023, Grindr for Equality proudly supported our partner, Rainbow Sky Association of Thailand, with a $50,000 grant to campaign for this historic win. We are honored to be part of this 20-year effort to achieve marriage equality in Thailand. 

These advances are hard-fought and well-earned, and the fact that they’re coming during Pride month makes them that much sweeter. Congrats to the community in both countries for these historic wins!

Launched in 2015, Grindr for Equality is a core company initiative dedicated to accelerating a world where LGBTQ people in every country are equal before the law, free to marry, and have their unique health needs met. In partnership with the company’s product and customer experience teams, public health authorities, and LGBTQ non-governmental organizations, Grindr for Equality harnesses the power of the Grindr platform and provides funding to advance key health and human rights goals for our community. 

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