Four Play—Grindr Presents: 'Who's The Asshole?' Season 4, Hosted by Katya

Who's the Asshole? is back for Season 4 — six new episodes, six new guests, and Katya still hosting like she's never heard of a boundary she wouldn't cross on your behalf.

If you don't know the show: Katya sits down with a guest, they talk about sex, dating, their worst decisions, your worst decisions, and then they listen to voicemails from the Grindr hotline and tell you whether you're the asshole. 

Grindr is where the stories happen. The hookups, the ghosting, the late-night confessions, the situationships that lasted three months longer than they should have — all of it starts on the grid. Who's the Asshole? is what happens when you actually talk about those stories out loud, with people who've been there, and let Katya decide who was wrong.

Four seasons in, and the hits keep on coming.

Season 4 Guests

This season goes from Broadway to punk to reality TV to couture to comedy writers' rooms to the corner of the drag internet that everyone follows without comment. Here's who's in the chair:

Jinkx Monsoon (February 12): Won Drag Race twice, broke box office records on Broadway with Oh, Mary!, and is now playing Judy Garland at Carnegie Hall. She unpacks the line between theatrical chaos and emotional honesty — and what it means to survive as a transfemme, sober, narcoleptic performer who's somehow the smartest person in every room she enters.

Peaches (February 19): Has been screaming about pussy over synthesizers since 2000 and has not once considered doing anything else. Her new album is called No Lube So Rude. She's 59, angrier than she was at 30, and she gets into why shock has always been a tool for her — not the point.

Colton Underwood (February 26): In 2019, his virginity was a primetime television event. Since then, he's come out on Good Morning America, married a political strategist, had a baby, and shown up on The Traitors Season 4. He opens up about visibility, vulnerability, and what happens to queer identity after the spotlight shifts. He calls this his "PG Disney Era." Katya will have follow-up questions.

Jeremy Scott (March 5): Ten years as creative director of Moschino, which meant ten years of convincing the fashion establishment that SpongeBob was couture. Now he's talking about the intensity of the fashion industry, how queerness shaped his creative life from a young age, and what happens when everyone you work with has slept with everyone else you work with.

Pat Regan (March 12): Co-executive producer on Hacks, writer on Nobody Wants This, host of Seek Treatment — a podcast he and Cat Cohen started when nobody important was listening, which is no longer the situation. He dives into gay intimacy on and off the stage, and the humor hiding inside everyday chaos. 

Lushious Massacr (March 19): Drag queen from Brownsville, Texas who created Dragvestigations — a YouTube series where she walks into discount stores in full drag and just reviews them. Frank Ocean liked it. Marc Jacobs liked it. Millions of people liked it. She brings raw confidence, transformation, and what it means to show up loudly as yourself.

Past Seasons

If you're just getting here: Season 1 had Orville Peck, Jordan Firstman, Trace Lysette, and Saucy Santana. 

Season 2 brought Adam Lambert, Gottmik, Bowen Yang, Evan Ross Katz, Brandon Kyle Goodman, and Cosmo. 

Season 3 turned Lisa Rinna, Christian Cowan, Meg Stalter, Gus Kenworthy, Zachary Zane, Joel Kim Booster, and Jordy loose. Start anywhere.

The Grindr Voicemail

Got a story? Call 510-ASS-HOLE. Katya and her guests will listen to all of it and tell you what you already know but needed to hear from someone else.

Watch Episode 1 here.

New episodes every Thursday starting February 12.