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Sobanukirwa n’uruhushya?

Uruhusa ni amasezerano hagati yawe n’abandi bantu asobanura ibyo mugihe gukorana. Dushobora kubona urusa mu buzima bwacu bwa buri munsi nko kubaza umukozi mushya niba yemera ko wamuhobera. Cyangwa tubwira umuntu wese twabenyaniye kur Grindr ibyemeye berekeye imibonano.

Kubyerekeye imibonano, uruhushya rusobonur ko umuntu wese abona ibyo ashaka ntakwangiza mugenzi we. Uruhushya ntiruhishanya kandi rurasabwa kandi rugatangwa.

Kubona uruhushya bisonura ko umuntu yemeze kuburyo butomoye ko uwo mugiye gukirana imibonano nta kibazo cy’umutekano afite, yemeye kandi ko ari kuryoherwa. Ushobora kubona uruhusa mu buryo bwinshi, ubaza ibibazo ( “ Nshobora kukwambura ishati…”) no kubaza ibyo ushaka ( “ Nta kibazo ufite cyo kugusoma?”). Ugomba kureba niba uwo mukorana imibonano wahawe uruhusa agomba gukora kuburyo mumenyana kandi mukubahana mu buryo butagomba kurenga imipaka.

Gutanga uruhusa bisonura kumenyesha uwo mukorana imibonano ko uri kuryoherwa kandi ntakibazo ufite kubintu byose biri kuba. Ushobora gutanga uruhusa n’amagambo yemeze nka “ Yego” n’ibindi bintu byose bitari amagambo bigaragaza ukuryoherwa kandi ugomba kumenyesha uwo mugirana imibonano ko ufite ibihe byiza.

Ni ngombwa ko uruhusa rushobora gukurwaho buri gihe cyose. Ese wigeze ubwira ikintu umuntu kuri Grindr hanyuma ukumva wagihindura umaze guhura ni wo muntu? Ushobora guhindura icyemezo cy’ibyo ushaka gukora igihe icyaricyo cyose. Kuberako watanze uruhushya kuri Grindr ntibivuga ko ufite inshingano zo gukora ibyo wemeye igihe uhuye nuwo wahaye uruhushya. Igigambiriwe ni uko wowe na mugenzi wawe mugomba kumva ko mwubahanye kandi ko ntakibazo mufite ku byo muri gukorana.

Ukenye ibindi bisonuro ku byerekeye uruhushya mu rurimi rw’icyongereza, reba iyi videwo ya Planned Parenthood. Iyi lisiti ya Teen Vogue ifite ingero uko uvuga igihe ushaka uruhusa. ((Ihuza ku makuru mu cyongereza)